We and our children.

A new era, a new teaching!?

I would like to begin this article by thanking all the parents in the world for the simple fact that they have been, or are, parents, and by asking them — as well as those who will read this article — to open their minds and hearts in order to understand what follows.
I would like you to understand that this article is not meant to judge anyone, but to help open humanity’s eyes to a new perspective on love.

I had a beautiful childhood, just like many children do. My brother and I were raised with boundless maternal love, and our mother was protective and affectionate, in the best way she knew. She always tried to teach us to be respectful and responsible, fair, and to love and protect one another.

For me, she was the pillar of our family, always strong yet sensitive. Though she is a small and delicate woman, she showed incredible strength and fought tirelessly to keep us all together. She is my example of strength and willpower.

She did everything she could to give us a beautiful childhood and to make sure we lacked nothing. What she didn’t realize was that the love she gave us was our bread and water, and the moments when she hugged and kissed us were the true paradise.

Thank you, Mom.

Perhaps true responsibility for the future of generations lies in healing ourselves first, before asking life to create further through us.

For me, a child is the purest and most innocent being. So delicate, beautiful, and astonishing in their essence, that bringing a child into this world without being aligned with the original love is an act of egoism.

Now I would like to explain, from both my spiritual and material understanding, what this original love truly is.

Original love is described as the divine essence of existence — a pure, unconditional, and universal love that forms the foundation of creation as well as of all authentic human relationships. This love is the very nature of God, and every human being is an expression of it.
It is a love that knows no limits, no judgment, no egoism, and no pride, a completely selfless and pure form of love.
In short:

Original love asks for nothing in return and expresses itself through acceptance, compassion, and kindness toward oneself and others.

Please remember this description of love, as it will help you understand the text below more clearly.

Now I would like to make the connection between original love and children.

The child you hold in your arms came to you out of your desire to become a parent and offers you the possibility to live this experience.

A child does not belong to anyone. They are a free being who chose to incarnate through us in order to experience life on Earth. We, as guides, are only their temporary mentors on this journey. Our purpose is to support them in this experience, to offer them love, and to make their path easier. They do not belong to us simply because we brought them into the world; in a deeper sense, we are the ones who belong to them.

In the process of creation and becoming a human being, a soul chose you and your partner to be its guides in this earthly life. I use the word “guides” because this is the true value of a parent: to guide a child and to help them become the best version of themselves.

However, this process of guidance begins even before the child is born. How and why?

A child’s health and inner balance are shaped by many factors, such as the genetics of both parents, as well as the mental, physical, and spiritual state of the parents — especially the mother — both during pregnancy and after birth. If, during this delicate period, the mother has an unhealthy diet or is exposed to a stressful environment dominated by fear and tension, the child will absorb all these feelings like a sponge.

These influences are not temporary; they can leave deep marks, reflected in the child’s health and behavior from the very first moments of life. This is why the attention given to this process is essential in offering the child a harmonious and balanced beginning.

A warm, gentle, and respectful father naturally contributes to the child's harmonious growth, providing a stable and loving environment.

I read in a book by Jakob Lorber that “the greatest disease from which the parents of a child suffer is the disease of carnal indulgence.” If their only interest in a relationship is physical pleasure, they will bring a child into the world already affected.

Beyond physical indulgence, there are other vices that can deeply affect a human being, such as laziness, pride, arrogance, as well as greed, debauchery, anger, and various forms of resentment. Most human beings end up losing their way because of these weaknesses, thereby losing their sense of purpose and balance. These vices, when cultivated and passed on, are among the main causes of many serious illnesses that affect children in this world. They are not just moral burdens, but also sources of profound imbalances, reflected both in physical and spiritual health.

It is said that a proud person has nothing sacred within them, as they use any means at their disposal to satisfy worldly passions and selfish desires. And in such a state, when this type of person procreates, they cannot give birth to children with a high level of consciousness, but rather to beings who are “fragile” and marked by various forms of suffering. These sufferings can be either mental or physical.

"There are people who enter this world already affected, even from their mother’s womb, as a consequence of the “sins” of their parents or even their ancestors. Yet, these souls usually choose to endure a temporary trial in the earthly body, with the purpose of offering a lesson of love, patience, and compassion to those around them. Anyone who cares for them with sincere love and deep patience will be blessed with a fortunate destiny in the world beyond."

The last category of children is the purest and most innocent, even if the state in which they entered the world is the result of their parents’ “sins.” At the same time, the parents of these pure human beings have the opportunity to purify their own souls to the highest degree if they care for them with sincere love and devotion.

(When I speak of “sins,” I am not referring to the religious meaning of the term, but rather to the parents’ and ancestors’ actions that lacked love — whether it involves feelings such as fear, pride, or selfishness, actions, or even diet. However, this does not mean that the child is impure or guilty; it only means that they carry on their shoulders the entire burden of previous generations. This burden has a double edge: it can either give them the chance to break the chain of all past sufferings, or it can continue to transmit the same heavy inheritance.)

The Foundation of Education: Love and Guidance from Home

A child with a heart full of love and a mind clear of distractions can reach the heights of the greatest mountains in this world with the utmost ease. Not because it is easier, but because they know that, apart from themselves, no one can hinder them, and nothing can stop or defeat them.

A child who is born is like a book with blank pages, on which nothing has yet been written. From the moment they open their eyes, they begin to take shape, learning in their early years from their parents. The child absorbs the gestures, attitudes, vocabulary, and everything they observe in their parents. In essence, the parents become their model in life, whether as heroes they admire or, without realizing it, as negative examples they may follow. With each experience and emotion lived, the child begins to write their own book, adding not only words but also images and feelings that give — or fail to give — color to the story of their life.

In addition to the character a child develops by observing the world around them, they also carry a genetic inheritance from their parents. This genetic inheritance contains information that influences physical traits, predispositions to certain illnesses, as well as behavioral and emotional tendencies. These factors can shape not only their outward appearance but also the way they react to their environment or to various life situations. Yet, a child’s inheritance does not stop here.

Now, imagine that alongside this “genetic baggage,” the child adds the teachings they receive — attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors absorbed from their family and social environment. These can be constructive, or, unfortunately, they can amplify existing imbalances.

The most valuable gift we can offer our children is not what we place in their hands, but what we place in their hearts.

As parents, we often want to give our children everything we ourselves lacked, and in our passionate desire to create “a better life” for them, we lose sight of the fact that our little ones can become selfish, spoiled, or disrespectful.

We forget entirely that a “good life” is not defined only by material gifts, but by those of the soul and spirit.

In our rush to place the world at their feet, we lose something essential: an authentic connection not only with them but also with ourselves. The mistake arises when we forget to teach them the value of what they receive. We forget to teach them gratitude, to find joy in simple things, and to share that joy with others. We forget to teach them to be kind, gentle, and generous.

The truth is that true transformation and deep development can only occur in an ordered and pure mind, and this can be achieved only through careful education and proper preparation of the child’s heart. That is why it is essential to focus first on shaping and purifying the child’s heart before anything else.

Only when the heart is pure and gentle does a child have a solid foundation to develop an ordered and balanced mind. A heart full of love and compassion creates the fertile ground for the mind to understand and process the world with clarity and wisdom. Preparing the heart is, therefore, the foundation for the harmonious development of the whole being.

A child with a pure heart is a child who has the openness and capacity to understand the world with clarity and compassion. This makes them not only intelligent but also capable of developing their intellect in a balanced and harmonious way.

Those who prioritize the development of a child’s intellect at the expense of the heart’s emotions are creating a profound imbalance. In this way, their minds, lacking harmony between mind and soul, become affected and unbalanced.

“Our children’s education should be based on love and wisdom. Parents have the responsibility to guide young souls toward harmonious development, cultivating in them deep moral and spiritual values.”